It is 𝐩𝐚𝐢𝐧𝐟𝐮𝐥 to live under the shadow of fear.

I know it because, for years, I have stayed put because I was afraid.

I have accepted that it’s not about the absence of fear, but rather the decision to move boldly in its presence.

Asking “Why” repeatedly while you are stressed is often very unhelpful. Especially when things did not happen as per your expectations.

I no longer agree with this one-size-fits-all thinking and there is a more empowering way to thrive.

Do you tend to measure up yourself with others and compare if you're doing well?

Build your non-comparing muscle and start developing confidence from within.

Energy rises and falls. Seasons change.

Be aware of your season and choicefully craft your priorities

I thought ordinary was not good enough, until I realized how my pursuit of extraordinary is holding me back from doing things that I like and feel joyful about.

Stop chasing only the “feel good” factor in your career.

It may result in you constantly focusing on the grass on the other side which is always greener.

What can you do instead?

Are you caught in a 𝑏𝑢𝑟𝑛𝑜𝑢𝑡 – 𝑟𝑒𝑐ℎ𝑎𝑟𝑔𝑒 – 𝑏𝑢𝑟𝑛𝑜𝑢𝑡 – 𝑟𝑒𝑐ℎ𝑎𝑟𝑔𝑒 - 𝑏𝑢𝑟𝑛𝑜𝑢𝑡 cycle?

You may have lots of fun during your holiday, but you feel dreadful shortly after coming back to work. You then plan and look forward to the next getaway.

How are you limiting yourself in your mind?

You may have an idea of “who you are” and “who you are not”. And, we often live up to the image we have in our mind.

Strictly adhering to this will limit your opportunities and hold you back, making you feel stuck.